Sustainable Transformatio

Why I Threw Out My Self-Help Books!

Don’t get me wrong, I love all books. Especially self-help books! 


And yet… those books didn’t help me make the lasting changes that I’ve made. 


So, now, I have thrown out almost all of my self-help books and I spend my money on programs, coaching and courses with teachers who I know will help me make the leap I’m looking for. 


Why? 


Because I’ve learned that sustainable transformations takes very specific work. It can’t be mass produced for a mass audience. 


Transformation that lasts, changing habits and patterns that we’ve had since we were probably kids, takes a lot more than reading how-to strategies and being inspired by someone. 


It takes someone listening to my specific problem, my specific limiting belief, combined with my specific personality and my life experiences. 


When I do that we get to the root of an issue, rather than messing around with the symptoms that I thought were the problem. 


Case in point, clients in my Be Seen and Heard package, need to talk about their specific relationship challenges. Their unique history and stories. My process is similar with each client  -- I could write a book about the process -- but, how I use the process is different with each client. 


That’s why their results are so huge after each session. Sure, it takes multiple sessions, and costs more than a book does, to get where they want to go, but they know it’s a journey. It was a journey to get them where they are in their relationship, they know it’s going to take time to create lasting change and begin to chart a new journey. 


The other thing my clients have in common is they want results that last. Not a quick, pick-me-up, they want a shift that is palpable. 


One client put it this way, “Brenda is awesome! I’ve had much clarity and shifted the energy I was coming into my relationship with. I highly recommend her coaching package!”


So, I wonder, what is it that you want to see a lasting change in? It might not be your relationship, it might be your career, business, relationship with your mother, money or how to truly let go of your adult children. 


I’ve got you. I can be the coach that guides you into the lasting change you long for. We can create a package specific to your situation. Schedule your call with me and we’ll create a plan. Toss the self-help books. Invest in something that will transform you. Schedule your call here. Together, we’ll create the lasting change you are looking for.