Do You Want to Own Your Brilliance?

Two years ago, I decided to start the Liberate Your People Pleaser Podcast, a safe space to explore all the aspects of people pleasing and how the qualities of being a people pleaser, like being empathetic and wanting to help others are fantastic, the issue is when we do those things at our own expense.  

And Wuuhaa! Today we are celebrating our 100th Episode of Liberate your People Pleaser podcast. I want to give a special thank you to everyone who has listened, liked, commented and supported this show. I'm really grateful for each of you. 

Now, let’s continue our journey of Liberating our People Pleaser!

Today’s Question is: Do You Want to Own Your Brilliance?

It might seem like an odd question to ask, and it’s likely that no one has ever asked you that before. So… think about it. Are you using your gifts, intelligence, skills and genius on your terms? That’s what owning your brilliance looks like. Your brilliance is the truth of who yo are and when you express your truth, you shine! 

if we don’t own it, we can get into stressful situations where others are wanting to be in control of our brilliance!

In today’s episode of Liberate Your People Pleaser I’m going to give some tips and insights on how to develop your inner brilliance and tap it in a unique way and much more.. 

Listen to today’s episode HERE

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT! Starting from this Wednesday August, 10th 2022, I'm going to start a weekly Instagram live that I call: Own your Brilliance with Brenda.

Every wednesday 4’ Clock PST/ 7 Clock EST I'm going to be live and we are gonna discuss everything related to Owning your brilliance and other Practical things as well.

I will Interview past clients and discuss how owning their brilliance changed their lives and how you can also do the same in your own unique way.

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BRING YOUR BRILLIANCE AND JOIN ME!

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The square peg - round hole trap

I am a master at this!

And, I fucking hate it!

I get an idea. It’s usually when I’m stressed. I know… that should be my first sign…

And I think, “Sure. I can do that. I can make that work.”

You see I pride myself on being a survivor. One of those women who can “figure it out,” no matter what challenge comes up.

And I do. And, sometimes it’s been amazing.

And sometimes I’m just shoving my fucking square peg into a round hole, smiling and pretending all the while that I can really do this. If I just hang in there a little longer. If I try a little harder.

Then I wake up one day (that’s what it’s like for me. A sudden flash of total clarity.) and I’m like, “fuck! I know what’s wrong! I’m shoving my square peg into a round hole and I hate the way that feels!”

Then, I get myself out of whatever I’ve gotten myself into.

It might be a romantic relationship, or even a marriage. It might be a job, a place I live or something I volunteer for.

Here’s what I know for sure, no matter what the price, getting my square peg out of a round hole ALWAYS makes my life better. It’s a personal win.

And magically, a door open, usually almost immediately, that gives me an opportunity to use my energy and talents in a way that is right for me. A square peg in a square hole, so-to-speak.

Can you relate? What are you doing in your life, right now, that feels like a square peg in a round hole. I’d love to hear about it. We all do it.

The trick is, getting ourselves out of it and noticing faster when we do it the next time. That’s called unapologetic evolution. I will never apologize for stepping into the next best version of myself! And neither should you!

It's Christmas Day! Feeling like you're not prepared enough?

It’s Christmas day. The 12th day of our 12 Days of Enough.

Maybe you were up into the wee hours of the morning wrapping presents. Maybe you don’t have all the food prep done for the day that you hoped for.

Here’s my Lifestyle Advice for this not enough thought: Toss it in the trash.

It’s Christmas. What ever is done, is done, and what isn’t done may not get done-- and that’s okay.

Do you know why it’s okay? Because it’s the truth. 

The truth, even an inconvenient one, is less stressful than all the thoughts about how it should be another way.

Give yourself the best Christmas present ever.

Be enough. You’ve done enough. If that means there aren’t rolls with dinner or you eat a little later or go out for Chinese food, who really cares?

Celebrate the season. Celebrate love. Celebrate you, because you are enough already!

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