How Can Pleasure Can be a Litmus Test?

Do you use pleasure as a litmus test? 

You may think that is a crazy question! 

In the world I grew up in there was a sort-of “nobility” placed on suffering and definite suspicion about anything around pleasure!

No one openly talked about pleasure. 

Even sex wasn’t talked about in the context of pleasure. It’s as if you should keep it to yourself if you were experiencing pleasure with sex. 

Anybody with me?? Comment down below and tell me if anyone you grew up with talked about pleasure!? 

As I’ve grown spiritually, I’ve begun to understand the true role of pleasure as a tool for guidance.

Yes, I’ve just used the words, spiritually, pleasure and guidance in the same sentence! 

I have come to know and experience that we are, I am, you are - designed for pleasure. 

When it’s time to make a decision, a great way to know what to do, is to ask, “does this feel like pleasure or pain?” 

I’ve learned the hard way sometimes, to move towards pleasure. 

Sure, the pain decision is sometimes more socially accepted. We live in a time that thrives on fear, pain, suffering, anxiety and things being “hard.” 

But, pleasure… that takes me into my unique self-expression. 

Pleasure leads me into authentic power. 

Pleasure moves me towards “scared-cited.” A lovely phrase for when you’re stretching outside of your comfort zone and into your next evolution. 

I hope you’ll join me for a Club and a Room I’ve recently started in Clubhouse. I apologize in advance for android users who can’t join. It wasn’t my idea to make it an Apple only platform, but alas… it is. 

The Club is, Sex+Pleasure+Freedom and the Room is, Sex as a Gateway to Awakening, which meets every Wednesday at 12:30 pm Pacific time. 

Follow me in Clubhouse, after setting up your profile and I’ll follow you too. 

Join the Sex+Pleasure+Freedom Club here: https://www.joinclubhouse.com/club/sex-pleasure-freedom

Join me for the Room Sex as a Gateway to Awakening on Weds. at 12:30 pm Pacific  here: https://www.joinclubhouse.com/event/mWOlVAn8

If you aren’t in Clubhouse, let me know with your reply that this topic interests you. I am super passionate about this topic and would gladly coach or create a program for it! 

Dare to be Joyful

“Have you noticed that it seems easier for the world to love a suffering woman than to love a joyful, confident woman? Glennon Doyle, Untamed

Do you dare to be joyful during a pandemic? 

Do you dare to be joyful when a friend is struggling? Or one of your kids? Or your spouse? 

Do you dare to be joyful when the economy is… uncertain? 

Do you dare to be joyful even if every thing in life isn’t joyful? 

I’ll take that dare! 

I’m done with suffering. 

Suffering is a choice. 

Does that mean everything's coming up rainbows and unicorns in my life? Hell No! 

But, what am I willing to give so much power to, that I will let it steal my joy? 

Of course, I’m not encouraging you to bypass your emotions. But, emotions that are felt when they arise, fade very quickly. It’s our resistance to them that keeps them hanging around. 

I don’t want anything outside of me to be more powerful than what’s inside of me. 

And, what is inside of me? Joy. 

And Love.

And Compassion. 

And Kindness. 

Why in the world would I let someone or some situation steal those from me? 

Is it easy? No. If it was easy, everyone would do it. 

That’s why I’m a coach. To be the resource for someone who is ready to choose joy over suffering. Someone who knows they are their own worst enemy and is ready to become their best advocate! 

Now that’s a change worth making. 

I’m ready if you are. 

I’ve got a couple of one-on-one client openings in my calendar. Let’s explore working together. It’s easy. Book a complimentary 15-Minute Discovery Call and we’ll figure it out together. Book yours HERE.

Joy. Let’s make people wonder what we’re up to!